Things Your Child Will Learn From You my

Actions serve to teach, words only to inform. If you want your child to learn from you, you must lead by example. Your kids see you more than you think. What are the things your child will learn from you? Here we provide some valuable tips on 

qualities 

that you will surely like him to learn.

For example, parents can tell their children that they have to be respectful and always tell the truth; however,  if they yell at each other or yell at their children, and lie to get rid of tedious obligations, then they are teaching them that this is the way adults should behave.

It’s not always easy for parents to stay in control,  there are no perfect parents, and the truth is that children sometimes test their parents’ patience to the limit. Some parents are surprised at how their children upset them, even if they have good character and self-control.

But  what would be the solution to always being a good example ? Remember you want to set a good example but you are not perfect and neither are they. Try to teach a positive lesson from every mistake you make.

If someone in authority says one thing but does another, it irritates children as much or more than it does adults. So ask yourself at the end of each day:  What lesson have I taught my children today? What things will my child learn from me?

Good example

Respect

We need to continually talk to our children about  the importance of being courteous and 

respectful

, but it’s much more important that we are. For example: thanking your teachers, doing household chores like cleaning the room or making the bed or 

to recall

  the toys will instill in them the feeling of being grateful and at the same time being respectful.

Honesty

Watching your children learn to be honest is a great joy for any parent. Certainly parents want to set a good example. First, spouses must be  open and honest with each other.  They shouldn’t fall into addictions like flirting or pornography. Second,  honesty at work and in the family will be a positive and lasting example.

Love

Get used to  telling your children that you love them. Show them that they are very important to you. Many children who become adults remember when their parents  read to them every night, or when they answered all their questions. And they will never forget when, before they left, they gave them a  hug and a 

goodbye kiss

.

love for reading

If you want your children to become reading amateurs, set a good example for them. The benefits are numerous: 

good academic performance

 and professional, better interpersonal relationships, a clear view of the world around you and a closer relationship with parents; not to mention the pleasure and satisfaction that reading presents.

• make sure they have 

  publications 

  available from very young : Let them guide you, they will see you as your friends and part of your life.

• Read aloud every day. They will learn to pronounce words correctly and cultivate a taste for reading.
• Discuss together what you read to them. At an early age they recognize, pronounce and understand many words.
• Ask them to read it. Now, remember that reading is not easy to master, it takes time and practice.

The dreams, ideals, values ​​and interests you have show up not only in what you say, but also in what you do. From a very young age, children are very aware of their parents and learn from them. They see which things have priority and often espouse the same values.